What Are the Gift-Giving Customs in Israel?

Wrapped gifts

Several years ago Parents Magazine contacted me about a story it was doing on parenting around the world. The inquiry led to What Defines Israeli Parenting, a raucous discussion, and a second highly charged post about Israeli "rudeness." Recently, a gift website asked me to help out for a series on gift-giving customs in various countries. I'd love your input on this. I once overheard an Israeli saying that Americans were "stingy" when it comes to gifts. I do find that Israelis give gifts more often and put a lot of thought into their choice and presentation. Here are the categories, but irrelevant categories can be omitted. I appreciate the sender including Chanukah, even though … [Read more...]

What Hostess Gift Do You Like Best?

flowers for hostess gift

My husband and I host guests regularly and have received our share of appreciative gifts. I do not invite guests in expectation of any gift, and as long as you make an effort to be pleasant, to the best of your ability, you are welcome in my house. If you don't know what to bring, don't have time to shop, or are short on funds please don't worry about it. We're a big family and most of the people we host are not going to be inviting us back. I've lived in communities where hostess gifts were not the norm. My mother used to say that there really isn't a gift that is a fair exchange for hosting, especially houseguests. But even extremely practical hosts like myself understand that people … [Read more...]